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Day Thirteen: Christmas Morning Breakfast Menu

Day Thirteen: Christmas Morning Breakfast Menu

When I think of Christmas morning, what tends to come to mind first are the smells that come with it. The smell of the real Christmas tree, the smell of fresh coffee grinds and steamed milk, the smell of bacon and slightly burnt toast and […]

Gnocchi Arrabiata, baby!

Gnocchi Arrabiata, baby!

Last week on my lunch break I was craving my usual chicken and salad banh mi with extra salad and no onion. This particular craving has lasted about six weeks so far with no end in sight. My friend and colleague Mika, on this particular […]

Day Six: Best Christmas Reads for Kids and Adults

Day Six: Best Christmas Reads for Kids and Adults

Christmas and books and books about Christmas – THIS POST HAS IT ALL. I have always wanted to have a tradition where I read Christmas books throughout December. Until now, this has remained but a thought and a wish.. this year however, I plan on changing that. As well as that, for the years to come, I want our little man to get excited for Christmas – just like his Mama – and I want him to have Christmas books surrounding him to get him in the festive spirit!


The Harry Potter Series

This probably wouldn’t be your first guess or go-to for a Christmas read, but for me, the Harry Potter series holds a special place in my happy little Christmas heart.

This could definitely go in the kid’s section as well, but I am including it in the adult section because just a few years ago at Christmas time, I bought myself the entire Harry Potter collection (the editions picture – SO PRETTY) and it got me through a terrible breakup. I churned through the entire series in a matter of days. Much like the movies, the magic, whimsy and wonder of the wizarding world that J.K. Rowling has created absolutely screams Christmas to me. The rugs in the Gryffindor common room and the log fire and the Christmas feast that Dumbledore makes appear is everything I want for Christmas and more. I am of the firm belief that the Harry Potter series are the most immersive books I have ever read. I lost myself in the world of Hogwarts and, at a time where I felt like I didn’t belong anywhere, especially around Christmas time, it felt like the huge, festive, end-of-year hug that I needed.

A Christmas Carol

Possibly the most well-known, influential Christmas stories of our time. First published in 1843, A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens is the story of Ebenezer Scrooge, a man who has no time for festivities, who is cruel and selfish, who is only interested in his own wealth and who detests Christmas. On the night of Christmas Eve, Scrooge’s life is changed by a series of ghostly visitations that show him the bitter truth about his choices and his life. This is an absolute classic; a funny, heartwarming and beautifully told story about the true meaning of Christmas.

Christmas Days: Twelve Stories and Twelve Feasts for Twelve Days

This book really intrigued me when I first heard about it. I don’t know how I hadn’t heard of Jeanette Winterson – a New York Times best-selling author – before, but I am glad I know of her now. Christmas Days: Twelve Stories and Twelve Feasts for Twelve Days is a festive season must-have as far as I am concerned. Winterson brings together twelve of her brilliantly imaginative, funny and bold tales as well as a personal and incredibly introspective story of her own Christmas memories. These tales give the reader a portal into the spirit of the season, where time slows down and magic starts to happen – and seriously, what more could you want from a Christmas book, or any book really?! What’s more is that to accompany the twelve Christmas tales, Winterson has included twelve festive recipes including some traditional Yuletide favourites: red cabbage, gravlax, turkey biryani, sherry trifle, Winterson’s own mince pies and more.

Buy. It. Now.

Bridget Jones’s Diary

Whenever the subject of Bridget Jones comes up (which happens more than you may think, in my world), the first thing I think of her mum’s annual Christmas turkey curry buffet. What even is that?! Anyway, I digress. Much like the movie, Bridget Jones’s Diary by Helen Fielding is a standard, reliable go-to for Christmas. It is a light, humorous and fun read that you will churn through quickly, but with the undercurrent of Pride & Prejudice and the backdrop of cold, white London in December, you will always finish this book feeling entertained, romanced and Christmas-sy.

Letters from Father Christmas

Most famously known for The Lord of the Rings series and The Hobbit, J.R.R. Tolkien is a worldwide literary favourite. It was only when I started doing a bit of further research for this post that I discovered he wrote Letters from Father Christmas, and, when I learned what it was about my heart completely swelled in adoration for the late writer. Get this, every December an envelope bearing a stamp from the North Pole would arrive for J.R.R. Tolkien’s children. Inside would be a letter in a strange, spidery handwriting and a beautiful coloured drawing or painting – the letters were from Father Christmas. (SWOON, RIGHT? I am definitely doing this for my little man. Cheers, Tolkien).

The letters told wonderful stories about life in the North Pole such as how the reindeer got loose and scattered presents all over the place, how the accident-prone North Polar Bear climbed the North Pole and fell through the roof of Father Christmas’s house into the dining room or how there were wars with the troublesome horde of goblins who lived in the caves beneath the house, and many more. The book includes photographs of Tolkien’s original letters to his children and it is all very charming and lovely and heartwarming and oh-so-Christmas.

The Life and Adventures of Santa Claus

The Life and Adventures of Santa Claus is the story of Santa Claus, from boy to jolly old fellow, as imagined by L. Frank Baum, the creator of The Wonderful Wizard of Oz. Every one of us has, at some point in our lives, wondered about the man in the big red suit – why does Santa travel via reindeer? How does he fit through the chimney? How does he deliver all those toys in one single night? First published in 1902, Baum creates a world full of charm and whimsy as we are taken deep into the forest where a wood nymph discovers an abandoned baby. Raised among mythical forest creatures, the child learns to outwit evil as he grows towards adulthood and must discover how to re-enter the human world, which leaves him determined to share gifts and spread love to his fellow man. SO. GOOD.


How the Grinch Stole Christmas

From the master of children’s books, Dr. Seuss introduced us to the Grinch in his Christmas classic How the Grinch Stole Christmas. This book has gone on to be made into two movies (the Jim Carrey one being the obvious superior film), as well as the name Grinch now being used to describe anyone who is a bit of a grump around the holiday season. With a heart two sizes too small, the Grinch is the meanest creature you’ll ever meet. He hates Christmas and the whole festive season. But when he hatches a dastardly plot to steal Christmas, he’s in for a big surprise! The story’s heart and soul lies in its catchy, sing-songy rhyming text which takes readers on a journey, watching the Grinch’s heart grow a few sizes just in time for Christmas.

The Jolly Christmas Postman

I remember picking this book up from my primary school library and absolutely falling in love with it. From the award-winning husband and wife team of Janet and Allan Ahlberg comes the Christmas favourite The Jolly Christmas Postman. It’s Christmas Eve and the Jolly Postman is hand-delivering letters and cards to all of our favourite fairy tale characters – there’s a card for Baby Bear, a game appropriately called ‘Beware’ for Red Riding Hood from Mr Wolf, a get-well jigsaw for hospitalised Humpty Dumpty and three more surprise envelopes! The magic of this book lies in it’s removable and completely interactive cards, letters and games. It is the perfect read-aloud book that marries great children’s fiction writing, Christmas AND fairy tales.

Merry Christmas, Mary Christmas!

I can’t remember where I picked this book up from, but the moment that I flicked through it’s pages I loved it. The illustrations are the absolute winner for me when it comes to Merry Christmas, Mary Christmas! The spreads are bold and bright in colour and I have always loved a picture book where there are multiple things to look at, point out and discoverMary Christmas’ family goes above and beyond for Christmas – they always have the biggest tree, the brightest lights and the most amount of presents. Mary Christmas wishes that her family celebrated a little bit differently. When Mary confides in Santa about her feelings, he suggests that maybe she can find a way to embrace (and spread) her family’s enthusiasm. She does so by persuading them to share their celebration with the larger community in the local park—tree, gifts, and all.

Madeline’s Christmas

I have always been a big fan of Ludwig Bemelman’s Madeline. Always. I loved the television series and every single one of the books. Madeline was the curious, adventurous and inquisitive girl that I always wanted to be. Madeline’s Christmas was actually the authors sixth and last book that he wrote, illustrated and published before his passing in 1962. It’s the night before Christmas and everyone is sick in bed. All except brave Madeline, who is up and about and feeling just fine. Taking care of eleven little girls and Miss Clavel is hard work, but Madeline finds help from a magical merchant peddling flying carpet door-to-door. Now the girls are going on a Christmas journey that will surely make them forget all about their sniffles and sneezes.

Dear Santa

With hard-wearing, durable lift-the-flap pages, Rod Campbell’s Dear Santa is the perfect book to share with your little one this Christmas. With big, bold illustrations and minimal text it is ideal for a read-aloud where parents can add their own spin to the simple story. A letter to Santa asking for a Christmas present starts off a merry chain of gift-wrapping, but nothing seems quite right and each time he thinks better of his choice. Get your tiny human to lift the flaps to unwrap a present and find out how Santa chooses the perfect gift. There’s a special surprise at the end!

Babar and Father Christmas 

Much like MadelineBabar was a HUGE part of my childhood. I used to surround myself with the books while I watched the animated version on television. Not your average Christmas story, Babar and Father Christmas is a unique and imaginative story from Jean de Brunhoff. Babar’s children have caught wind of a fellow in Man’s country named Father Christmas who brings joy and toys to little children. “If only we could bring him here,” they wish. So they write the Christmas saint a letter inviting him to visit them. When they get no reply, Babar, ever the good father, rushes out to find the red-suited one. After much searching, and with the help of a dog named Duck, Babar reaches Father Christmas’s workshop in the snow. Can Babar find a way to bring him to Elephants’ country?

Maisy’s Christmas Collection – Maisy’s Christmas Presents, Maisy’s Christmas Day, Maisy’s Christmas Tree, Maisy’s Christmas Eve

From setting up a Christmas tree to Christmas Eve celebrations, from preparing a Christmas dinner and buying presents for your friends the collection of Maisy Christmas stories is a must-have for parents of little ones everywhere. There are lift-the-flap pages and tabs that your children can pull to reveal surprises as well as Lucy Cousins signature bold illustrations and simple, fun text. The board books are hard-wearing so that you can be sure that these will last you one Christmas after another, after another.

The Smallest Gift of Christmas

Peter H. Reynolds’ The Smallest Gift of Christmas is an incredibly sweet tale about a little boy called Roland who, after waiting ALL YEAR for a Christmas present, discovered that his was very, very small. TOO SMALL. It had to be the smallest gift he had ever seen! So Roland wishes for something bigger, and bigger, and bigger. But he’s still convinced there must be a bigger gift somewhere in the universe. Will he know it when he sees it? The illustrations are beautiful (especially the shade of green he uses – STUNNING) and the premise is utterly heartwarming.

Dear Father Christmas

Dear Father Christmas by Alan Durant is another touching and delightful lift-the-flap book FULL of letters and a surprise gift at the end! When Holly sees a man who looks like Father Christmas, she decides to write him a letter: “Dear Father Christmas – is it snowing in Lapland? Please answer. Love Holly.” And so begins the start of a touching pen pal friendship with Father Christmas himself in which Holly learns about the magic of elves, reindeer and life in Lapland, as well as getting some very special Christmas surprises.

The illustrations and edge-to-edge spreads make me so freaking happy. The colours are so festive and fun and, once again, there is so much to look at and discover and discuss on each page. Dear Father Christmas includes so much more than removable letters! You’ll discover an advent calendar, a Santa Claus ornament, a foldout reindeer guide (with answers to common questions, plus favourite reindeer jokes), and one last, special treasure that Holly finally dares to wish for.

 Christmas Cookies! A Holiday Cookbook

Christmas? Yes. Baking? Yes. Baking Christmas themed treats? Yes. Baking Christmas themed treats with my little man? Yes. Baking Christmas themed treats with my little man with this cute book that includes Christmas stories? YES. This very sweetly illustrated cookbook is the perfect way to get your kids involved in preparing Christmas treats and getting into holiday mode! Clearly presented, these seventeen recipes — from shortbread to snickerdoodles to stained-glass Christmas trees — are accented with useful tips and intriguing bits of Christmas lore!

The (Oblivious) New Mama’s 25 Days of Christmas

The (Oblivious) New Mama’s 25 Days of Christmas

It’s December! It’s Summer! It’s the festive season! Our Christmas tree is up! Our cat has discovered a love of tearing baubles off the tree and waking us up at 5am by chasing them down the hallway! Seriously though, I am so freaking excited that […]

Baby Shower Supplies

Baby Shower Supplies

Whether you are going all out and hiring a venue and catering and the whole shebang, or if you are doing something at home with a budget, your baby shower can still ooze fabulousness, instgrammableness and loveliness! I have always loved hand-making as much as […]

The (Oblivious) New Mama Personalised Baby Shower Cookies

The (Oblivious) New Mama Personalised Baby Shower Cookies

This coming Saturday is our baby shower, and over the weekend Pete and I were all systems go. Over the weekend, Shari and I did a huge shop for all of the food for next weekend, as well as ordering the balloon bouquets and buying napkins and plates and decorations and everything else in between. We also visited a few clothes shops to try and find me a dress for the occasion.. alas, my boobs proved far too problematic. Nearing a G-cup now (…yep), my maternity bra has its work cut out for it. The thick straps are a godsend for my back but also mean I can’t wear anything with a thin strap. The high cut of the bra again, an absolute dream for me but it means that pretty much everything I wear has to have a high neck cut. I did try some dresses on without a bra to see if it could work.. It can’t. Not at all. No. Shari and I both learned that there is definitely such a thing as too much breast.

Yesterday, Pete spent most of the day outside getting our garden and outdoor area ready for the barbeque. He gurnie-ed (I don’t know how to make that a verb), and weeded, and mowed, and raked and anything else you can think of that is an outdoor domestic task. He did it all and the place looks freaking immaculate.

I, on the other hand, made about a thousand cookies.

I have really gotten into my baking lately, especially since purchasing fondant icing tools from ebay among a plethora of different shaped cookie cutters and letter embossers. I ordered a baby shower set of cookie cutters last month that included a bib, a onesie and a baby bottle. I also love anything that is homemade (we all know that by now) as well as anything personalised. So, I am so chuffed to share The (Oblivious) New Mama’s Personalised Baby Shower Cookies!

Vanilla Snap Cookies

Ingredients – 

185g butter

1 cup caster sugar

1 and a half tsp vanilla extract

2 and a half cups of plain flour

1 egg

1 extra egg yolk

Method – 

Blend butter sugar and vanilla in a bowl or food processor

Add remaining ingredients and blend until smooth dough forms

Dive the mixture in half and roll to about 5mm thick on baking paper

Refrigerate for about ten minutes

Using your cookie cutter, cut out cookies and bake until a light golden colour


I have tried a few different ready-to-roll icings now but have found that the Coles brand one is the easiest to work with and, therefore, gives better results

If you are wanting to work a colour into the icing, tear the icing into chunks and place in a bowl

Squeeze as much colouring as you want onto the icing and knead until it is consistent the whole way through

On baking paper, roll the icing out to the desired thickness and use cookie cutters or icing stamps to shape icing

Dip your finger into some water, rub onto the back of the icing and press gently onto cookie and let set

For our baby shower, I tried to stay away from everything being BLUE. Instead, we are going for a more natural palette including a lot of whites, light browns and dark greens. It is a very rustic theme that we are going for, and I will be adding pops of blue throughout the decor including a couple of blue balloons, blue lollies and some light blue napkins. I wanted to keep that theme going with the cookies however I did make more blue coloured ones just to add that little bit more blue to the mix.

This may sound completely lame – but I am definitely past the point of caring about how soppy and love-dovey I sound – but I loved making these for my little man. I loved creating the ‘Baby Boyle’ cookies with our son in mind, and every time I finished a batch I would run down to Pete in the yard and show him and we hugged each time and then he would say, “For our little man” and rub my belly and then we would kiss. It’s just such a simple touch that adds so much warmth and love to a baby shower, and come on – how freaking adorable are they?!

If you or someone you know is having a baby shower and would like to order some The (Oblivious) New Mama Personalised Baby Shower Cookies please shoot me an email or a direct message on Instagram. There are boy and girl options and I can customise orders to pretty much whatever your heart desires!! I would love to be a part of your special day in the sweetest way possible!

Homemade Meat Pies

Homemade Meat Pies

Meat pies – one of the staples of the Australian way. Four n’ Twenty, Mrs. Mac’s Pies and Harry’s Cafe de Wheels, collectively as a nation, we appreciate the meat pie in all of its simple, wonderful glory. Me, as a pregnant woman and someone […]

Seedlip x The (Oblivious) New Mama

Seedlip x The (Oblivious) New Mama

It’s Tuesday and the sun is shining and I got a little (a lot) bit sunburnt at lunch which means that it is time to get ready for summer and picnics and cocktails. It also means that it is time for me to announce my […]

Gingerbread Voodoo Dolls à la T(O)NM

Gingerbread Voodoo Dolls à la T(O)NM

Halloween has never been a big deal for me however I never need an excuse to participate in some themed baking.. I looked online for some inspiration and absolutely fell in love with Donna Hay’s Gingerbread Skeletons – but, I am a realist and I know that my decorative icing skills are not at all at the level that is needed to pull of successful skeletons. I am also yet to perfect different icing types for different applications so, with all of that in mind, I got my inspiration for this year’s Halloween backing from Not Quite Nigella.

The inspiration came from there, but the recipe is my own. These Gingerbread Voodoo Dolls are perfect for an afternoon baking session as – apart from the thirty minutes you need to rest the dough – it is an incredibly simple and quick process from start to finish. As I was making my batch, all I could picture was cooking with Bub. I want to be the kind of Mum that sends her child to school with homemade treats. I cannot wait to bake with Bub, and it is all I can do to not weep at the idea of the two of us covered in flower and laughing and Bub licking the spoon and decorating biscuits and cakes and cupcakes however he/she sees fit.

I also cannot wait to dedicate some serious time and effort into honing my baking and decorating skills on maternity leave. I never thought, growing up, that I would be such a keen baker. My mum used to make a mean rainbow layer cake for my birthday every year but besides that, we aren’t and never have been a baking kind of family. I find such calm and solace in baking, from the batter right through to insane amount of decorating inspiration out there at the moment. And, the best thing about baking as a hobby is that you get to eat the results and I really cannot think of anything better than that..

Anyway, I am going way off topic.

Gingerbread Voodoo Dolls

Ingredients – 

150g softened butter

1/2 cup brown sugar

2 1/2 cups plain flour

1tsp baking powder

1/2 cup golden syrup

1/2 cup water

4tbsp ground ginger (I like my gingerbread super gingery, so, you just do you)

Coloured icing pens

Method – 

Beat butter and sugar until pale and creamy

Add flour, baking powder, golden syrup, water and ginger to the mix and beat until combined as a smooth dough

Wrap the dough in cling wrap and refrigerate for thirty minutes

Between two sheets of baking paper, roll out the dough until about 5mm thick

Using a gingerbread cookie cutter, cut as many men out as you can before rolling out the dough again and repeating

Bake for 10 minutes or until golden brown

Once cooled, decorate your gingerbread voodoo dolls however you see fit!

113 days until due date

113 days until due date

I am absolutely exhausted. I am in good spirits, I am the happiest I have been in a long time but I am ridiculously tired/spent/debilitated. There is nothing left in the tank. Bubba has been going through a big growth spurt this last week which […]